Our Staff

Gilbert J. D'Andrea

Funeral Director

Licensed since 1965

“When you provide supportive and compassionate care during a traumatic time in someone’s life, they never forget the comfort and care they receive.”

Gil D’Andrea’s passion for helping others has helped establish Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Homes as a committed partner in the community.

Originally from Amityville, Gil became a licensed funeral director in 1965 and worked at various funeral homes on Long Island. Gil then served in the Army during Vietnam and when he returned home in 1967, moved to Sayville and began working at Raynor’s Funeral Home. Gil’s notable drive, determination and community focus was undeniable and in 1969 he was asked to become a partner of the business. 

Since that time, Raynor & D’Andrea has continued to grow, all while continuing to provide exceptional and compassionate care to the community. For Gil, that is the most important part of owning a funeral home. “We are not a big conglomerate, we are part of the local community. I am just very proud of the history and growth of Raynor & D’Andrea and am proud of the support and comfort we offer family and friends that choose us to plan and carry out their funeral needs.”

Gil and his wife Meredith enjoy spending the winter months in Florida and also have a residence in Islip. In his spare time, Gil enjoys playing golf and stopping by the funeral home.

Richard P. D'Andrea

Funeral Director

Michael J. Traum

Funeral Director

Licensed since 2001

“I am honored to have earned trust and confidence from the families we help at Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Homes.” 

After becoming a licensed funeral director in 2001, Mike began his career in North Babylon and in 2007, joined Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Homes. Growing up, Mike always had an interest in forensic science and while in school a friend introduced him to the mortuary science program. That introduction sparked his change in career choice. 

At Raynor & D’Andrea, what Mike enjoys most is the opportunity to help families through the entire process of planning a funeral. Mike often sees a change in families from the first phone call to the conclusion of the funeral. “Families tend to share their feelings and open up more,” shares Mike. “They let their guard down a bit and look to us to help guide them through this challenging time. It’s an honor to have that trust.”

Mike attended Stony Brook University with a focus on physical therapy and later attended Nassau Community College to pursue his career as a funeral director. 

"While I take pride in my work and personal growth, the most meaningful part of my life is the time I shares with my wife, Nicole, and our daughters, Lilly and Vera.  They keep me grounded, motivated and constantly inspired to be better - both professionally and personally."

Thomas R. Farraher

Funeral Director

Barbara Mullaney

Funeral Director

Licensed since 2011

“I am truly honored to be able to guide and support families through their most difficult days. To help them celebrate the life of their beloved family member with dignity and compassion.”

Barbara became a licensed funeral director in 2011 after attending Suffolk Community College and the American Academy McAllister Institute of Mortuary Science.  She recently became a Certified Celebrant; assisting families in creating a customized funeral experience, with the ability to officiate a personalized funeral, memorial or graveside service. She is a Life Member of Community Ambulance Company in Sayville and volunteered as an EMT with the company for 15 years, as well as having served on the Board of Directors for 7 years. Barbara lives in Sayville, where she raised her 3 daughters. “I am grateful to serve the families of the community where I live.”

Barbara loves her job and working with the staff at Raynor & D’Andrea. We are a family, together navigating emotions and keeping each other grounded. Working as a team with the same goal of serving families with the utmost care and compassion during their most difficult time.

She enjoys spending time outdoors, but her greatest joy is being a Gigi and spending time with her grandchildren.

Haley Alber

Funeral Director

“I am honored to assist families through what can be an emotionally and logistically challenging time. I strive to always be someone families feel they can depend on for answers, guidance or an ear to listen.”

Haley began working at Raynor & D’Andrea in 2021 in a part-time role throughout her mortuary science schooling at Nassau Community College. She became a licensed funeral director in 2024. Haley is grateful to the team at Raynor & D’Andrea who’ve helped guide her in her early career and is honored to serve the community she grew up in.

Haley previously attended Hunter College in Manhattan where she graduated in 2019 with a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology. Outside of work, she loves seeing musicals on Broadway, participating in events at her local library, and playing tennis.