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Lily J. Mayer, 103, of Oakdale, New York, passed away peacefully on December 13, 2025. Mrs. Mayer was predeceased by her husband, George Richard Mayer in 1980, and by her daughter, Lily Ann Hayes in 2020. She is survived by her daughter, Eleanor Quenzer of Oakdale, by her five grandchildren, Richard and his wife Lisa, Joseph and his wife Christine, Doug, Lily and her husband Matthew and Amanda and her husband Casey, as well as her six great-grandchildren, Harper, Kelsie, JT, Madison, Everett and Oliver.
Friends and relatives will gather at Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Home in West Sayville on Monday, December 15th, 5-7 p.m. where a funeral service will be held at 9 a.m. Tuesday, December 16th. Interment will follow at Pinelawn Memorial Park.