Dr. Joseph J. Graffeo, age 64 of Bay Shore on October 26, 2019. Beloved husband of Barbara A. Graffeo. Loving step-father of Michael Grumbach and Christopher Grumbach. Cherished brother of Marie Graffeo Senft (Mason) and Valerie Heslar (Robert). A graduate of The Juilliard School, Joseph was an accomplished concert organist and composer. He was the longtime organist and musical director at St. John Nepomucene RC Church in Bohemia. Visitation will be held at the Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Home on Wednesday October 30th from 2-4:30 and 7-9:30 pm. Funeral mass will be held 11:00 am Thursday October 31st at St. John Nepomucene RC Church. A private cremation will follow.