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Carrie Ann Garafola, 52, a lifelong resident of Sayville, died on Thursday, December 4, 2025, after a long, courageous battle with cancer. Carrie graduated from Sayville High School in 1991. She went on to earn her Bachelor’s Degree at James Madison University and then her Law Degree at NY Law School. Carrie worked for many years as an attorney with Traveler’s Insurance Company.
Carrie is survived by her two daughters, Grace Lily and Molly Rose, her parents, Michael and Marcella Nicosia of East Patchogue, as well as her two sisters, Laurin Clemens and her husband Jim of Central Islip and Erin Lennon and her husband Christian of Patchogue. She is also survived by Christopher Garafola, Chris's mom Phyllis Kern of Sayville, and Chris's brother Joe and his wife Maria of Bayport, their children Olivia, Aidan, and Amelia, and by many loving family and friends.
Friends and relatives will gather on Monday, December 8th, 2-4:30 & 7-9:30 p.m. at Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Home in West Sayville. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Tuesday, December 9th at 10 a.m. at St. Lawrence RC Church in Sayville and a private cremation will follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Carrie's memory to St. Jude Children's Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 would be appreciated.
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105
Tel: 1-800-805-5856
Web: https://www.stjude.org/donate/donate-to-st-jude.html