
When a loved one who served passes away, it is natural to want their service remembered with honor. The Department of Veterans Affairs offers several benefits to recognize their dedication, but some of the most meaningful ones are surprisingly easy to miss. Understanding these lesser-known programs can help families create a final tribute that reflects both pride and gratitude.
1) Burial and Transportation Allowances
The first practical step is applying for VA burial allowances. These benefits can offset funeral or cremation expenses, and in some cases, transportation assistance to a national or state Veterans cemetery. The amount depends on service type and location of death, but even partial coverage can make a significant difference. A funeral director or Veterans Service Officer can help you file the necessary forms quickly and correctly.
2) Burial in a VA National Cemetery
Next comes choosing a final resting place. Eligible Veterans can be laid to rest in a VA national cemetery at no cost. This includes the gravesite, opening and closing, a headstone, and perpetual care. Spouses and certain dependents may also be buried in the same plot, with inscription added later at no charge. Many states also maintain Veterans cemeteries with similar benefits for those who prefer to stay close to home.
3) Military Funeral Honors
Every eligible Veteran is entitled to military funeral honors upon request. A uniformed honor guard presents and folds the American flag and plays Taps in recognition of their service. Most funeral homes can help arrange this with the proper documentation, ensuring the ceremony is dignified and complete. It is a deeply moving way to recognize a lifetime of service and sacrifice.
4) A Government Headstone, Marker, or Medallion
Following the burial, families can request a government-furnished headstone or marker at no cost. If the Veteran is buried in a private cemetery, the VA offers a bronze medallion that can be affixed to an existing headstone. These options ensure that the Veteran’s service is permanently recorded for future generations.
5) Presidential Memorial Certificate
Finally, the VA provides an engraved certificate bearing the President’s signature, recognizing the Veteran’s faithful service to the nation. Families can request multiple originals to share with loved ones. This certificate becomes a cherished keepsake that complements other memorial items, such as the burial flag or folded presentation display.
Do families have to pay for the flag used in a Veteran’s service?
No. The burial flag is provided by the VA at no cost. Most Post Offices and funeral homes can help families request one
Learn more: https://www.va.gov/burials-memorials/memorial-items/burial-flags/
Can a spouse or dependent be buried with a Veteran?
Yes. Spouses and eligible dependents can often be interred in the same plot at no charge, depending on the cemetery’s policy.
How can I find out if my loved one qualifies for these benefits?
Start with a copy of their DD214 (military discharge papers). The funeral home or a local Veterans Service Officer can assist in verifying eligibility and filing applications.
Honoring Every Veteran’s Story
At Raynor & D’Andrea Funeral Homes, we believe every Veteran deserves to be honored with the full recognition they have earned. Our team works closely with families to guide them through the process of securing VA benefits, arranging military honors, and creating a personalized tribute that reflects their service and life. If you have questions about Veteran benefits or would like to discuss preplanning, please call us at 631-589-2345 or visit our website. We are honored to serve the families of those who served our country.